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Coined terms are the province of modernists and gonzo journalists like Tom Wolfe, but once in a while, Finn’s creative language skills lead to something startling and fresh. (At least I like to think so.)
This morning at breakfast, he blurted out, “I cold, Mom! I really, really cold!  I spilled some of my Weetabix on [...]


Ella, age 6:  “Mom, do you know about Saint Nicholas?”
Mom: “Yes.”
Ella:  “Saint Nicholas was Santa Claus. He gave presents to people. He was a saint.”
Mom: “That’s right.”
Ella: “And Saint Nicholas is dead. That means Santa is dead. That means there isn’t any Santa Claus.”
Mom: “Then where do all your presents on Christmas morning come from?”
Ella: [...]


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Generation X Raising Generation O
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Shortly after the election, Finn and I were shopping for a birthday gift for his cousin at Keplers, our excellent local independent bookstore.  I was browsing books and word games, Finn was plopped in front of the craft and toy section, which included many coveted items, like a “paint your own race car” set…
But on [...]


In spite of all my misgivings about Star Wars, the licensed world, I caved badly and threw Finn a Star Wars-themed party for his 4th birthday. I bought the Clone Wars plates, the cups, the napkins. I bought Clone Wars action figures as party favors. I had a friend bring over extra light sabers so [...]


The Dark Side

11Nov08

We have officially entered the era in which we contribute to the Lucas Empire’s fanatical grip on the consumers. We have light sabers, a jedi knight robe and costume, and an increasing collection of action figures. Not to mention the vintage X- & Y-Wing and Tie Fighters, the Millenium Falcon…all collected by my husband and [...]


Hallelujah

05Nov08

In my inbox this morning, the subject title above, and the message below from my dear friend Mary:

“Rosa sat down so that Martin could walk, and Martin walked so Obama could run, Obama ran so our kids could fly.”

This morning we all feel better about the future.

It’s not simply that we think Barack Obama will [...]


There is something kids like better than candy.
Take Halloween.
As soon as the kids, especially the older kids, especially the older Latino kids, heard the Obama swag piled by our door was for their taking, they turned from the candy bowl and grabbed handfuls of loot.
We gave away rally signs by the tens, buttons by the [...]


After Finn got his first light saber I knew that I had finally caved.  Strictly speaking, we could no longer be a No War Toys home.
I emailed  my very wise, and very funny friend Catherine:

“just got first light saber.
quandry: does a weapon from another galaxy violate my no war toys policy?”
Being a writer, and of [...]